Resolved Question: Help me get out of this abusive manipulative relationship?

1 December 2008, 12:54 pm

For the past two years my relationship with my boyfriend has been nothing but up and down's because one moment he's nice a sweet and the next moment he's an a**. So now i'm going to be getting my apartment next weekend and lately i've been stressed about it but i've been fine. Today i went to go chill with him and i told him that i'm going to be moving next saturday, and that he can come over after the court date we have to go to because he pressed false charges against me when we got into this big agurment and now we have to go see a clerk. When i told him that he can come after the court date he starts yelling at me saying i keep changing my mind about the date and why cant he come over before then. And i told him because my family is going to help me move my stuff. Then he starts saying that if i don't get the apartment by the 15th of this month hes moving to rhode island with his best friend and he said that hes sick of me blaming him for all the stress which i have not done. I've been talking to him about how stressed out i am because i'm going to be paying for everything while he doesn't have a car, and works at a job making 8.15 and hes 25 years old. Honestly I just need to know if its worth being with someone who doesn't have a car, makes 8.15 an hour and makes excuses why he can't look for another job at the moment. Choked me before. Pressed false charges against me. Threatens to move to rhode island if i dont get my apartment by a certain date. Says all i do is give him hell when i talk about how stressed i am about the apartment but he says that all i do is blame things on him?? its like honestly how can this guy say he loves me..and then trys to say i don't love him...I'm just so sick of everything to the point were i just don't know what to do anymore...its like i have no friends..no one to talk to so it makes me feel even more lonely and wanting to go back to him. I just think this is not fair or right at all.... Read More »

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